Gossip How to Correctly
Gossip. Something Gen Z, and every other generation, is all too familiar with. Let’s get one thing straight: gossip isn’t always evil. Sometimes, it’s cultural currency. Sometimes it’s bonding. And sometimes, let’s be honest, it’s just really fun. Gossip is the social equivalent of seasoning. Used sparingly and with taste? It brings flavour. Used recklessly? You’ll burn your mouth, lose friends, and maybe get used. So, if you’re going to gossip,
When Bruises Wear Blazers Abuse in the Workplace
Some wounds wear lipstick. Others hold coffee cups in trembling hands. Not all bruises are purple; some appear as silence in morning meetings, nervous laughter over missed deadlines, or the weight behind a smile that doesn’t quite reach the eyes. Domestic abuse is often believed to belong behind closed doors, confined to bedrooms and kitchens, but it doesn’t stop there. It wears a uniform, carries a work badge, and answers phone calls under press
Why Everyone Is Starting to Look Alike
Scroll through Instagram, TikTok, or any major social media platform today, and one thing stands out: many faces look eerily similar. From top influencers to everyday users, a strikingly uniform aesthetic dominates.
The Invisible Architecture of Love: Fate, Destiny, Soul Ties, and Karmic Bonds
Some moments in life feel too precise, too poetic, to be accidental. A stranger becomes your whole world in a heartbeat. A goodbye feels more like a death than a departure. Sometimes, the right person arrives at the wrong time; yet leaves you forever changed. We name these experiences: fate, destiny, soul ties, karmic relationships, not to understand them, but to survive them. These concepts offer a spiritual structure to the chaos of human conne
The Brotherhood Complex
In nearly every corner of male behaviour, from gym culture to group chats, from the boardroom to bar banter, there’s one silent but powerful influence at play: the validation of other men. Often unconscious, always potent, this need for male approval quietly governs the way men dress, speak, date, and even process morality. Despite the public declarations of being “unbothered,” “alpha,” or “self-made,” many men are driven not by independence, but
The Fetish for Purity Desire, Domination, and the Projection of Power
There is a fantasy men cling to; quietly, sometimes unconsciously, that the ideal woman in untouched. Not just sexually inexperienced, but emotionally blank, unformed, easy to impress, and easy to mold. She is attractive because she has not yet become. Her purity is her offering, and her inexperience is her gift. It is a disturbing desire cloaked in romance and mistaken for love and make no mistake, it is a fetish, not a preference. This fetish f
The Male Gaze in Film
Somewhere in the universe, a man with a camera still thinks he’s doing women a favor by filming them eating strawberries in slow motion. Welcome, dear reader, to the phenomenon known as the male gaze; cinema’s laziest trick and patriarchy’s longest running franchise. Coined by Laura Mulvey in her 1975 essay, ‘visual pleasure and narrative cinema,’ the male gaze describes the way film (and honestly, most of popular culture) frames women as decorat
Brains, Beauty and Internalized Misogyny
Their legacy reminds me daily that bias against pretty girls isn’t about glitter; it’s about the threat they pose by refusing to shrink themselves
The Bittersweet Life of Almost
There’s a quiet sorrow that comes from living a life of almost. Not quite the top. Not quite the favorite. Not quite the one people talk about in glowing terms at dinners or award shows or over
Motherhood and Identity A loss. A rebirth. Or both?
Although I’m not a mother, and am far too young to be one, it’s a topic that has always intrigued me. These reflections aren’t drawn from personal experience but from the stories I’ve gathered from mothers
The Canon Events of Girlhood
Girlhood is not merely a sequence of birthdays or milestones marked by tradition; it a tapestry woven with moments that define, fracture, and ultimately reconstruct the self. There are events so universal in their sting, so inevitable in their unfolding, that they can only be described as canon. These are the echoes of every girl’s story, the quiet initiations into a world more complex that once imagined.
Age gap relationships; Love or just a number?
Age Gap relationships - the topic that gets people talking, and not always for the right reasons. You’ve seen them in tabloids, heard the gossip, and maybe even been on the receiving end of some side eyes when you mention an age difference in your own relationship. “Oh, you’re dating someone how much younger?” “Is this a mid-life crisis thing , or....?” If you’ve ever felt like explaining your relationship to everyone and their grandmother, well
Pretty Privilege: Is Beauty A Currency In Today’s Society?
Pretty privilege, also known as beauty bias, refers to the advantages and preferential treatment that conventionally attractive individuals receive in society.
